I asked my friend about the furniture again, and to my surprise, he told me he had given it away to his neighbors.

Dear Annie: I’ve had a friend for more than 30 years whom I’ve always helped out. I provided him with work when he needed money, loaned him money and supported him through his divorce and various other issues over the years. I was always happy to do so and never expected anything in return.

I no longer have any desire to be part of this “elite” group that seems to measure friendship by such rigid and unkind standards. However, I’m left wondering how to handle this situation. Should I confront my friend about how hurtful their words were,